The Vibe

It’s Going Down: Join Me On Instagram Live Tonight at 7pm

It has been a while since I have been on Instagram Live. Since you asked, I will jump on Instagram tonight and do a Q&A session. for anyone who wants to join me! You can ask me anything you want about my career and life as a litigator, writer, blogger, mom, woman, etc. Just because…

Oh, The Places I Will Go: 4 Places I Plan To Spend Time In As A Wandering Empty-Nester

I will be 55 when my youngest daughter graduates from high school. Who says you can’t be a wandering empty-nester? My most recent major life decision freed me from a mortgage and home maintenance. This freedom has made me start seeing my empty-nester possibilities in a whole new light! All I can think about are…

50 Years: 5 Life Lessons

Today is the big 50 for me! I cannot believe it! I have spent the weekend reflecting on my past and the plans I have for my future. My youngest daughter has spent the weekend reminding me just how OLD I am. LOL! I decided to share some of the things I have learned over…

Another Weekend Cozied Up In The House: 3 Movies You Should Check Out

It’s going to be another cold weekend! We are even supposed to get snow here in North Carolina. I love snow! I don’t love being out in the snow! So, it looks like it will be another weekend spent moving between my bed and couch. If you will be cozied up in your house this…

Dear Moms, Stay In Your Lane

Having the ability to nurture and carry another human being around with you for nine months is, in a nutshell, AMAZING! The process of bringing that human being into the world, NOT SO AMAZING! I’ve digressed already. πŸ™‚ For many of us who have shared the pregnancy and childbirth experience, we tend to feel a…

Food For Thought: Destiny Fulfilled

I often come across conversations that make me dig deep. In the interview below, Oprah asked, “What is the most difficult decision you have had to make to fulfill your destiny?” After giving it much thought, I realize that I have had to make a number of difficult decisions simply to get on the path…

Just Because: Introducing Our “Just Because” Personalized Note Cards

If I did not learn anything else in 2020, I definitely learned the importance of genuine human connection. I also realized how far we seem to have gotten away from some of the simple things that make a huge difference in our lives as human beings. Genuine human connection, or the lack thereof, led to…

Just Because: Introducing Our “Just Because” Magnets

Genuine human connection, or the lack thereof, led to the creation of my “Just Because” line of products. “Just Because” is about authentically connecting with yourself or others just to let them know you are thinking about them. I love affirmations! The top portion of my refrigerator is full of magnets with affirmations I love.…

HAPPY 2021: Vision Board Complete

Hi all! After 3 years, I finally did it! I completed my vision board. I am so proud of myself! To be honest, the digital vision board video I shared with you all made this task so much easier to complete. Did you complete your 2021 vision board? If not, it’s okay. As I said, it took me…

Glass 1/2 Full: Five Things I Accomplished In 2020

I love making New Years Resolutions. It is my way of setting my intentions and holding myself accountable for my year ahead. This year my resolutions will come in the form of a vision board. As the year comes to a close, I rarely take the time to appreciate all of the things that I…

Countdown to 2021: Let’s Create a Vision Board Together

What better way to set your goals and aspirations for 2021! I have wanted to create a vision board for at least the past two years but never quite got around to it. It is time to follow through. No more procrastinating and no more excuses! I am working on my vision board this week.…

Brrrr, It’s Cold Outside: Movies and Books to Curl Up With

Brrrrrrr, it’s cold outside! While I want to go out and take advantage of all of the sales, I don’t want to get dressed, I don’t want to deal with crowds, and I don’t want to be cold. So, I plan to move between my bed and my couch today while I read, watch movies,…

Merry Christmas To You And Yours

Much Love, Tonza

I’m Living My Best Life: Insecure and All

INSECURITY Lack of self-confidence or assurance; self doubt. Why is the word INSECURITY such a bad word in our world today? I do not like how the world forces us to internalize so much garbage by labeling us as weak or damaged when we dare to show a side other than the emotionally well, wonderful…

Christmas Chaos Be Damned: 5 Unique Gift Ideas

Thanks to my middle child, I now understand that it’s down to the wire for all of us online Christmas shoppers! Although I am the ultimate planner in certain areas, Christmas seems to throw me for a loop when it comes to gifting. There is something about the chaos around figuring out what to get…

It’s A Giveaway: You Still Have Time To Enter

Yes, I am holding the Amazon card upside down! πŸ™‚ But you get the gist. IT’S A GIVEAWAY!!!! I am super excited about the holidays and my new book, Always and Forever my Love, so I wanted to spread a little holiday cheer with a Giveaway! HOW DOES THE GIVEAWAY WORK? HOW DO I ENTER?…

Don’t Want To Listen To That Inner Voice? Stephan Speaks And Derrick Jaxn Are Here For You!

Okay. I could not resist. I feel like I am in that TikTok video… I am not going to do it. I am not going to do it. I DID IT! πŸ™‚ Yes, I still wholeheartedly believe all you have to do is ask yourself, “AM I THE BEST VERSION OF MYSELF WHEN I AM…

Reading Corner: 3 Book Ideas

I love curling up with a good book! I also love writing books! Looking for a good read or a great stocking stuffer for a reader? Here are three of my books for you to consider. πŸ™‚ Want to escape into someone else’s world? Check out Always and Forever My Love Ariana and Josiah came…

Be Intentional: Morning Routines Matter

It seems that everywhere I turn, people are having conversations about the importance of your morning routine. For years I have understood the value of a morning routine. When I do not follow my morning routine, my day is off, plain and simple. When I follow my morning routine, I am focused and more productive…

Always And Forever My Love Is Now Available

It had been eighteen years since she had seen him. Eighteen years. She could feel her heart begin to roar in her ears when he walked into the courtroom. As she tried to control her breathing, Ariana was certain that everyone around her could see her chest trying its level best to contain her racing…

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