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It’s Going Down: Join Me On Instagram Live Tonight at 7pm

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on January 18, 2021January 21, 2021

It has been a while since I have been on Instagram Live. Since you asked,…

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  • GenX

Always And Forever My Love Is Now Available

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on November 27, 2020December 23, 2020

It had been eighteen years since she had seen him. Eighteen years. She could feel…

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  • GenX

Massive Meltdown? No Worries: 7 Things To Help You Reset and Recover

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on September 10, 2020September 15, 2020

The pressure of being disconnected from the world as I know it, coupled with some…

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  • GenX

How Are You?: 5 Things To Combat The COVID Blues

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on September 10, 2020September 15, 2020

When COVID first hit and we were required to stay at home, I was probably…

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  • GenX

Short PSA: BE PREPARED TO VOTE

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on September 2, 2020September 11, 2020

This is a critical time in our country! We cannot afford not to vote! NEED…

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Who Am I?: When Is The Last Time You Have Asked Yourself That Question

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on September 1, 2020September 11, 2020

As you know, October 15, 2020, is my self-love anniversary! So, I have naturally been…

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  • Parenting

You Are Not Alone

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on March 7, 2020May 16, 2020

As I quickly walked down the hospital hallway trying to escape from my middle child’s…

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Self Reflection in Spain

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on February 27, 2020May 16, 2020

In addition to being fascinated by exploring new places, I enjoy travel because it gives…

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IT HAS BEEN A MINUTE! I MISSED YOU GUYS!

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on February 11, 2020May 16, 2020

Hi everyone! It has been such a busy time for me. I am really excited…

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President of the “Bitter Bitches” Club

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on January 9, 2020May 16, 2020

I recently learned that I had been bestowed the honor of serving as President of…

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On Monday my client was released from jail (charge On Monday my client was released from jail (charges dismissed) after years of fighting! My middle daughter @_lovely__lyssa_ was right there with me as I stood outside of the jail waiting for him to exit! She was right there with me when I took him to be reunited with his mother and two children (he had not seen them in 10 years). She was right there...

I don’t talk about my life as a litigator much. It has been an all consuming part of my life for 21 years. I would describe my career as my 4th child that requires a lot of attention. So, when I see my daughter recognize and appreciate the work that I do I get extremely emotional (code for I am crying 😊). 
I have missed a lot of opportunities to be present in my daughters’ lives because of my demanding career but in the midst of all of the chaos and craziness I have tried to make sure they know that this journey would be nothing without them. 

Much Love to @_lovely__lyssa_ @sierrasybarite @afnf_.gabby for sharing me with all of my clients and understanding my passion for advocacy.

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My 20-30 year old self was on a mission to prove t My 20-30 year old self was on a mission to prove that I was “miss independent”. There was nothing that made me prouder  than when people admired my independence and ability to juggle and get it all done.

At some point I realized I was sending the wrong message to the world, and, as a result, I was blocking my ability to receive what I needed which was a strong partner to share this journey with.
 
Sure I am still an incredibly independent person. I simply realize independence and a desire for companionship do not have to be mutually exclusive.

I look forward to the day I find the person to enjoy this ride with me.
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