Living, Not Existing
Yup! I said it! Actually, I didn’t. I was just trying to get your attention! 🙂 I came across a post by Juicy J the other day that said, “There is nothing wrong with paying a woman’s bills; we gotta stop this bullshit.” Before I go further, for those of you trying to figure outContinue reading “There Is Nothing Wrong With Paying A Woman’s Bills”
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This is for all of the women out there like me trying to figure out how to take care of themselves so that they can accomplish all of the things on their life to-do list. I don’t know about you, but now that I am comfortable in my skin, I need it to last soContinue reading “Aging Gracefully: An Inside Out Job”
I recently made a decision that was very difficult for me. I find that my most difficult decisions are because I struggle with accepting what I know to be true and being ready to productively push through the inevitable pain of transition. Because of my experiences, I believe that God, the universe, or whatever youContinue reading “It Is Meant For You To Be”
I always wondered why my mood drastically improves after one of my “highway driving singing sessions”. For me, a “highway driving singing session” involves a little more than turning the volume up and singing along. A “highway driving singing session” means I am putting on a full concert from my seat for everyone I driveContinue reading “Oxytocin Anyone?”
I was driving down the road the other day and decided to pull up Goapele because I wanted to hear her song Cool Breeze. Being a Goapele fan, I thought I was entirely in the know about her music. And then Strong As Glass started playing. Anyone who loves music knows the feeling that comes over you whenContinue reading “Strong As Glass By Goapele”
I know it might be hard to believe that anyone can take anything positive from the year 2020. And as we move into 2021, many of us are beginning to wonder, is there any end in sight. While 2020 and 2021, thus far, have not created ideal circumstances, many of us, as we hunker downContinue reading “Glass 1/2 Full: 3 Things The Pandemic Allowed Me To Focus On”
Today is the big 50 for me! I cannot believe it! I have spent the weekend reflecting on my past and the plans I have for my future. My youngest daughter has spent the weekend reminding me just how OLD I am. LOL! I decided to share some of the things I have learned overContinue reading “50 Years: 5 Life Lessons”
Much Love, Tonza
I could not let this day go by without saying a huge THANK YOU! Your consistent and continued support means the world to me! I love taking time to reflect and think about all of the things I am thankful for. Today I want to encourage you all to take a moment to think of,Continue reading “HAPPY THANKSGIVING”
As you all know, I am alllllll about self-love! Self-love is the key to a fulfilling life during our short time on this earth. BUTTTTTT… when I hear people say, “I am not responsible for your happiness” in the context of a relationship, I call BS. Sure, I get it; one cannot enter into a relationship a “hot mess” and expect anotherContinue reading “I Am Not Responsible For Your Happiness: Or, Am I?”