There Is Nothing Wrong With Paying A Woman’s Bills

Yup! I said it! Actually, I didn’t. I was just trying to get your attention! 🙂 I came across a post by Juicy J the other day that said, “There is nothing wrong with paying a woman’s bills; we gotta stop this bullshit.” Before I go further, for those of you trying to figure outContinue reading “There Is Nothing Wrong With Paying A Woman’s Bills”

It’s Another Relationship Question For You All

Hi all! I so enjoyed the feedback I got last week I decided to pose another relationship question this week. I am big on transparency. If I am honest and upfront in the beginning, that eliminates the possibility of an issue down the road. With that being said, I am becoming more selective about whatContinue reading “It’s Another Relationship Question For You All”

Manifesting A Meaningful Relationship: Today I Am Unpacking

I was recently told that I am so good at being alone. I paused for a moment when I heard this because I know the messenger meant it as a compliment. Or at least that is what I choose to believe. Part of me simply wanted to be the nice, agreeable woman that he neededContinue reading “Manifesting A Meaningful Relationship: Today I Am Unpacking”

Don’t Want To Listen To That Inner Voice? Stephan Speaks And Derrick Jaxn Are Here For You!

Okay. I could not resist. I feel like I am in that TikTok video… I am not going to do it. I am not going to do it. I DID IT! 🙂 Yes, I still wholeheartedly believe all you have to do is ask yourself, “AM I THE BEST VERSION OF MYSELF WHEN I AMContinue reading “Don’t Want To Listen To That Inner Voice? Stephan Speaks And Derrick Jaxn Are Here For You!”

I Am Not Responsible For Your Happiness: Or, Am I?

As you all know, I am alllllll about self-love! Self-love is the key to a fulfilling life during our short time on this earth. BUTTTTTT… when I hear people say, “I am not responsible for your happiness” in the context of a relationship, I call BS. Sure, I get it; one cannot enter into a relationship a “hot mess” and expect anotherContinue reading “I Am Not Responsible For Your Happiness: Or, Am I?”

3 Relationship Podcast Episodes Worth Listening To

It’s fall! Not only do you want to snuggle up with a good book during this time of the year, you also want to snuggle and feel the warmth and closeness of another human being in your life. I have been snuggling with some great podcast episodes. Today I want to share three specific podcastContinue reading “3 Relationship Podcast Episodes Worth Listening To”

What Tonza Wants: Over 40 and Dating (5 Traits of an Ideal Mate for Me)

I recently read an interesting article about what men in my age group are attracted to. I thought this article did a wonderful job of providing some insight into the mind of a mature man seeking companionship. It also led to some introspection on my part…What do I want? After careful consideration, while blasting EllaContinue reading “What Tonza Wants: Over 40 and Dating (5 Traits of an Ideal Mate for Me)”