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  • GenX

3 Relationship Podcast Episodes Worth Listening To

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on October 26, 2020November 2, 2020

It’s fall! Not only do you want to snuggle up with a good book during…

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  • GenX

Is “Don’t Mess This Up” Relationship Advice We Should Be Giving?

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on September 7, 2020October 26, 2020

How many times has someone told you, “don’t mess this up”? have you told someone,…

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  • GenX

Teen Dating Violence

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on April 24, 2020May 16, 2020

If you have never had a conversation with your teenager about teen dating violence, you…

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  • Relationships

Men Just Aren’t Ready For Your Feelings

  • by Jay Thomas
  • Posted on March 19, 2019May 16, 2020

In a lot of cases men wouldn’t ever get married if we could get away with it.  If a woman would allow that. We’d keep it simple, and you’d be a companion vs a wife. Or, someone we occasionally spent time with.

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  • GenX

The “F” Word: The Woes of Being Over 40 and Dating

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on March 13, 2019May 16, 2020

Apparently, I did not get the 2019 single woman’s memo, the “F” word is never to be…

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  • GenX

Submissive Boss Chick

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on March 9, 2019May 16, 2020

If someone asked me to describe myself in 3 words or less, I would say “submissive…

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  • GenX

What Tonza Wants: Over 40 and Dating (5 Traits of an Ideal Mate for Me)

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on February 19, 2019May 16, 2020

I recently read an interesting article about what men in my age group are attracted…

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  • Relationships

The Girl Code

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on October 9, 2018May 16, 2020

While sitting around talking to family and friends the other day, the “Girl Code” came…

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  • Parenting

My Children Are Dating Gurus

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on October 2, 2018May 16, 2020

This morning as I was in the middle of my morning walk, I had an…

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  • Relationships

I Want a Behind the Scenes Man

  • by Tonza D. Ruffin
  • Posted on July 10, 2018May 16, 2020

Of course, I do not know all of the factors that go into a man…

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CHALLENGE ACCEPTED!! As you can tell, I’m not as CHALLENGE ACCEPTED!!
As you can tell, I’m not as groovy as my mom BUT ...

My mom THINKS she is going to have a better shoe collection than me in a year, well she has A LOT of catching up to do 🤣

And I didn’t even include the heat that I have acquired since we started our business 😉🤫👀

Ally!

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CHALLENGE ACCEPTED!! My daughters said I must step CHALLENGE ACCEPTED!!
My daughters said I must step up my sneaker game now that we are co-owners of t.a.g. team kicks! 
I think my sneaker collection is pretty dope😂. What do y’all think?

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