Is “Don’t Mess This Up” Relationship Advice We Should Be Giving?

How many times has someone told you, “don’t mess this up”? have you told someone, “don’t mess this up”? has someone told someone you are dating, “don’t mess this up”? As the giver of such advice, my intentions were always good. I believed that the recipient was failing to see how incredible her mate wasContinue reading “Is “Don’t Mess This Up” Relationship Advice We Should Be Giving?”

What Tonza Wants: Over 40 and Dating (5 Traits of an Ideal Mate for Me)

I recently read an interesting article about what men in my age group are attracted to. I thought this article did a wonderful job of providing some insight into the mind of a mature man seeking companionship. It also led to some introspection on my part…What do I want? After careful consideration, while blasting EllaContinue reading “What Tonza Wants: Over 40 and Dating (5 Traits of an Ideal Mate for Me)”

Connected

Approximately 18 years ago we crossed paths. Feeling unworthy I ignored the obvious. I was a young, single mother with 2 little girls, just beginning my legal career. He was a single, young professional who had the world at his fingertips. Prior heartbreak and disappointment would not allow me to consider the possibility that weContinue reading “Connected”