Why We Settle

I am at the halfway point of being eligible to file for my divorce.  In North Carolina, one must be separated for one year before seeking a divorce. During the first few months of my separation, I was determined to focus solely on myself and my children and deal with all the pain and disappointmentContinue reading “Why We Settle”

Forest For The Trees

I have had my share of heartbreak.  Most of my heartbreak came from one man.  Just one.  And when I say that he broke my heart, that’s what I mean.  He is the only man that I can say that I have ever really loved.  The end of that relationship almost felt like a deathContinue reading “Forest For The Trees”

The Confrontation

He would never admit that he was wrong. If, by chance, he decided to admit that he was wrong, he would blame me for his behavior. That is how it had been throughout our relationship. I wouldn’t have done that if you hadn’t … Now, don’t get me wrong, I gave him some good materialContinue reading “The Confrontation”