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Why I felt an HBCU was right for me

  • by Courtney Muhammad
  • Posted on April 29, 2020May 16, 2020

Many people told me that an HBCU was not realistic and would not prepare me…

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5 Things a Girl Needs to Know in Order to Begin Her College Application Process

  • by Alyssa Hopson
  • Posted on April 27, 2020May 16, 2020

So my mom has been asking me to write this post for a while. Thanks…

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On Monday my client was released from jail (charge On Monday my client was released from jail (charges dismissed) after years of fighting! My middle daughter @_lovely__lyssa_ was right there with me as I stood outside of the jail waiting for him to exit! She was right there with me when I took him to be reunited with his mother and two children (he had not seen them in 10 years). She was right there...

I don’t talk about my life as a litigator much. It has been an all consuming part of my life for 21 years. I would describe my career as my 4th child that requires a lot of attention. So, when I see my daughter recognize and appreciate the work that I do I get extremely emotional (code for I am crying 😊). 
I have missed a lot of opportunities to be present in my daughters’ lives because of my demanding career but in the midst of all of the chaos and craziness I have tried to make sure they know that this journey would be nothing without them. 

Much Love to @_lovely__lyssa_ @sierrasybarite @afnf_.gabby for sharing me with all of my clients and understanding my passion for advocacy.

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OMG I cannot forget my mom @delthemaallen.
She has ALWAYS been there to fill in the gaps! ❤️❤️❤️

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My 20-30 year old self was on a mission to prove t My 20-30 year old self was on a mission to prove that I was “miss independent”. There was nothing that made me prouder  than when people admired my independence and ability to juggle and get it all done.

At some point I realized I was sending the wrong message to the world, and, as a result, I was blocking my ability to receive what I needed which was a strong partner to share this journey with.
 
Sure I am still an incredibly independent person. I simply realize independence and a desire for companionship do not have to be mutually exclusive.

I look forward to the day I find the person to enjoy this ride with me.
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I switched up my blog post today and decided to po I switched up my blog post today and decided to pose a relationship question for my readers to respond to.

Link to the post is in my profile so head over to my post and share your thoughts.

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