My Families “Bucket List”

As I shared in “The Big Panty Crew” Bucket List, I love to read people’s bucket list. Since I decided to share my friend’s bucket list, I definitely wanted to share my families. So, here we go:

My mother’s bucket list:

My mother and my daughter
My Mom, the Matriarch and My 2nd Born
  • Own a small condo in NYC
  • a moving company to help me move some things (2 women and a truck would be just fine :-))
  • Spend 2 weeks in Cuba
  • Live long enough to see all of my grandchildren successful, independent adults that are willing to help another young person achieve their goal

My first daughter’s bucket list:

Sierra
Sierra, My 1st Born
  • visit West Africa (Nigeria and Ghana especially)
  • go on a yacht cruise
  • learn how to sew
  • buy a home I love
  • Get married to someone who genuinely makes me happy

My second daughter’s bucket list:

Ally and August Alsina
My 2nd born with August Alsina
  • Win the lottery
  • Study abroad for a semester
  • Get my MBA

My nephew’s bucket list:

Caleb
My nephew, Caleb
  • Find my “passion”/what makes me want to get up every day
  • travel to every continent
  • be happier than I ever expected to be

STAY TUNED!!! MY LENGTHY BUCKET LIST IS COMING IN A COUPLE OF HOURS! Let me know what you think!

Happy New Year,

Tonza

Published by Tonza D. Ruffin

Perfectly Imperfect but VERY PROUD WOMAN, MOM, LAWYER, and AUTHOR, but most importantly...LIFE LOVER! I laugh loud, I work hard, I play hard, I am adventurous, I am curious, I am driven, I have moments of deep insecurity, I am loving, I am vulnerable, I am explosive (not one of my finer qualities), I dance around my house alone, I am an awful perfectionist which makes my insecurity worse, I sing out loud in my car without any concern for whose watching, I have trust issues, I do not live through my children, I no longer try to force my children into the mold that I created so that I could feel validated as a mother, I am a risk-taker, I am guarded in my personal life, I am kind, I am grateful. I am so excited about the rest of my life!

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