My 2018 “Bucket List”

IMG_0020Happy New Year! In 10 days I will be celebrating my birthday! I am happy to say that I have had some pretty wonderful experiences in my life!!! With that being said, there are so many other things I would love to experience. Since I shared my friends bucket list in “The Big Panty Crew” Bucket List, and my families bucket list in My Families “Bucket List”, I figured it would be fun to share my “bucket list” too. So, here we go:

  • travel to India
  • travel to Spain
  • travel to Switzerland
  • travel to Singapore
  • Read more books for fun
  • create a vision board
  • consistently keep a gratitude journal
  • grow a garden full of vegetables
  • learn to ski
  • Write and Publish a book (or two :-))
  • Do some work as a freelance writer
  • Become fluent in another language
  • run in a 10K
  • host a couple of dinner parties ( I love gathering’s but I usually end up inviting too many people for it to be a dinner party :-))
  • Skydive
  • have at least two more whitewater rafting experiences
  • attend a professional women’s soccer  game
  • see Danica Patrick race (I hear she is retiring so I better hurry up)
  • go to the Kentucky Derby
  • take some dance classes with my boyfriend
  • participate in a mission trip, during Christmas, with my family
  • go “Glamping”
  • Spend the rest of my life being in love
  • Spend a few days in a cabin with my daughter’s with no access to telephones, the internet, or television just to see if we can survive 🙂

Much Love and Happy New Year,


Published by Tonza D. Ruffin

Perfectly Imperfect but VERY PROUD WOMAN, MOM, LAWYER, and AUTHOR, but most importantly...LIFE LOVER! I laugh loud, I work hard, I play hard, I am adventurous, I am curious, I am driven, I have moments of deep insecurity, I am loving, I am vulnerable, I am explosive (not one of my finer qualities), I dance around my house alone, I am an awful perfectionist which makes my insecurity worse, I sing out loud in my car without any concern for whose watching, I have trust issues, I do not live through my children, I no longer try to force my children into the mold that I created so that I could feel validated as a mother, I am a risk-taker, I am guarded in my personal life, I am kind, I am grateful. I am so excited about the rest of my life!

7 thoughts on “My 2018 “Bucket List”

  1. good luck with your list, i hope you check off as many as possible, as happily as possible 😉

    Re. your travel to Spain bullet point:
    I’ve also taken that as my main goal for the year. Like, visit ALL of Spain. It’s proving to be an amazing journey, with sooo many surprises. Nights at medieval castles, concerts in lavender fields, cheese name it!
    Let me know if you want help with your Spain itinerary!

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