Don’t Want To Listen To That Inner Voice? Stephan Speaks And Derrick Jaxn Are Here For You!

stressed woman

Okay. I could not resist. I feel like I am in that TikTok video…

I am not going to do it.

I am not going to do it.


Yes, I still wholeheartedly believe all you have to do is ask yourself, “AM I THE BEST VERSION OF MYSELF WHEN I AM WITH HER/HIM?” Buttttt, when you refuse to listen to that voice in your head, Derrick Jaxn and Stephan Speaks are right there to reinforce what your gut is telling you. These videos are for those women needing that extra reinforcement.

According to Stephan Speaks, there are 7 TYPES OF MEN WOMEN SHOULD AVOID DATING. They are:

  1. Mr. Broke and Lazy
  2. Mr. Go With The Flow
  3. Mr. Momma’s Boy
  4. Mr. Fake Christian
  5. Mr. Married But Separated
  6. Mr. Emotionally Unavailable
  7. Mr. He Doesn’t Want A Girlfriend, But He Acts Like A Boyfriend

Stephan goes into detail in his video about why you want to avoid these men, so be sure to check it out.

According to Derrick Jaxn, you should not take a man seriously if:

  1. There is still residue from his past relationship
  2. His energy changes when you reciprocate interest
  3. When you notice he is creating all of these exceptions

Alright, now that you have heard it from your inner voice, these men, and probably some of your friends, what are you going to do about it?

Much Love,


Always and Forever My Love book

Published by Tonza D. Ruffin

Perfectly Imperfect but VERY PROUD WOMAN, MOM, LAWYER, and AUTHOR, but most importantly...LIFE LOVER! I laugh loud, I work hard, I play hard, I am adventurous, I am curious, I am driven, I have moments of deep insecurity, I am loving, I am vulnerable, I am explosive (not one of my finer qualities), I dance around my house alone, I am an awful perfectionist which makes my insecurity worse, I sing out loud in my car without any concern for whose watching, I have trust issues, I do not live through my children, I no longer try to force my children into the mold that I created so that I could feel validated as a mother, I am a risk-taker, I am guarded in my personal life, I am kind, I am grateful. I am so excited about the rest of my life!

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